Ask Polly Bath: “JUST STOP!!!”

Date: April 7th, 2024

Polly answers the question: “The other day one of my students got really upset with a peer because she wouldn’t stop bothering him. I gently told her to stop, pointing out that he had been asking very nicely. But what I really wanted to do was yell, ‘JUST STOP!!!’ Is there a time for that? I pride myself on being calm and gentle but sometimes I worry… am I too kind?”

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Ask Polly Bath: Kids Want Choices for Everything

Date: March 23rd, 2024

Polly answers the question: “Right now my students seem to think they should have a choice about everything. At what point should they realize that some things are not up to them?”

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Behavior? Stop and Think!

Date: October 4th, 2023

When dealing with behaviors, don’t respond right away. Instead stop, think, and process the situation.

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Ask Polly Bath: Pack of Kids with Bad Behaviors?

Date: July 1st, 2023

Polly answers the question: “We have a pack of kids in our middle school who feed off each other! They wander the halls, cause trouble, they make snarky comments to teachers. And it’s getting harder and harder to muster up the energy to deal with them! How can we get this group to stop?”

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Ask Polly: Aggressive Horseplay?

Date: January 29th, 2023

Polly answers the question: “Our middle school boys are very aggressive and ‘hands on’ with each other. I know horseplay is to be expected, but often things get out of hand at lunchtime or in the hallways. What can we do?”

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Blurred Lines of Authority at Home

Date: July 10th, 2022

When the lines of authority are blurry at home, those kids bring that into school. Which means we have to teach them that things are different at school.

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If We Don’t Regulate Kids…

Date: November 2nd, 2019

What do I accomplish by insisting on coats hung up, boots where they belong, and cubbies clean?

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You Can’t Control Their Home Lives and It Doesn’t Matter!

Date: October 16th, 2019

We can’t change what a kid is allowed to do at home. BUT we CAN teach them the skills needed to behave in school!

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Are You Soft on Kids with Disabilities?

Date: July 6th, 2019

Do you allow kids with disabilities to not live up to reasonable expectations?

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Should Traumatized Kids Have Limits and Expectations?

Date: June 29th, 2019

Trauma plays a BIG part in behavior! But we don’t want to make this mistake…

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