Ask Polly: Blaming and Excusing?

Date: May 6th, 2023

Polly answers the question: “My 8th graders do not take responsibility for anything, whether it’s homework, fighting, or running in the halls. Instead, they blame, make excuses, and complain. What can I do?”

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Disruptive Behavior?

Date: March 1st, 2023

If a kid is so disruptive that you have to remove them from the classroom, be careful it doesn’t backfire. How?

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Reconnect After Consequences!

Date: February 22nd, 2023

If a child’s behavior happened on your watch, but you need someone else to give the consequences, then it’s important that you reconnect with that child!

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Ask Polly: Cussing In Elementary School

Date: December 31st, 2022

Polly answers the question: “I have a student who cusses like you wouldn’t believe! I spend all day kicking him out and sending him down to the office only so he can return and say, “Well that was fun, the office sucks, too!” How should I respond and what’s the best consequence to stop this?”

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Time Out For Preschoolers?

Date: December 14th, 2022

Most of the time, when we need to remove a preschooler from a situation so they can take a breath, it should be really quick. Our littles shouldn’t be sitting in time out for twenty minutes.

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Teach the Do’s and Don’ts of Apologies

Date: May 8th, 2022

Making a kid give an apology doesn’t actually mean they feel sorry. Here’s how to teach meaningful apologies!

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I Did NOT Send Kids Out of My Class

Date: September 26th, 2021

When you send a kid to the office for bad behavior, two things happen. 1) It tells the kid that you can’t handle him and 2) you turn your control over to the office.

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My Detentions Change Behavior!

Date: February 28th, 2021

Is it possible for detentions to CHANGE behaviors? Yes! Here’s how.

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Behaviors in Art Class? Music?

Date: January 17th, 2021

Here are some ideas about holding kids accountable for behavior in art class, music class, and all the other ‘specials.’

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Mask Power Struggles!

Date: January 10th, 2021

Right now, one of the most common questions that a client will ask me is, “How should we handle a student who REFUSES to wear a mask?” This is what I recommend.

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